Originally Posted By: AndrewP


With her gone though you can start making the house your own. I was originally tempted to go nuts and start throwing stuff out, re-arranging etc but found it draining. I've taken it one step at a time and slowly reclaimed almost all of the house now.


This is a good idea and what I need to do. Its funny because when we were divorced I bought this house and lived in it for a couple of years by myself and my son's. I loved it and enjoyed it because it was my house. Now that we have lived together in it for 6 years and its the only house my daughter knows it feels strange now. Like it will never be my house again but a reminder of the last six years. Its silly to think like that especially today of all days. I know with time and effort I will turn it back into the house I enjoyed and want to be in.


Me:37 W:30
S10 S9 D3
M-Sept 2004 D-Nov 2007
Reconcile Sept 2010
Re-Married Sept 2014
BD ILYBNILWY - April 2016
W Wants to Move to Apartment - Sept 2016
W Moved to Apartment - Nov 10 2016