Your sitch was so tough, not only getting BD'd, but enduring a difficult marriage for a big part of your life and finding out there were serial affairs throughout it all. Ick.
You're still newer to your sitch in terms of months, but you've done really well in making correct choices and detaching from the destruction. It doesn't take away from the scope of the loss you faced, but it will allow the wounds to start closing over. 2017 will have it's share of heartache, but it will be manageable, and you'll have some good times in there too.
Glad we can be a part of them!
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
