Or, if you typically consult on things like this, "I'm going to church on Sunday, and I'd like to take the kids."
It recognizes that she could potentially have made other firm or tentative plans for them during that time, while being firm about what you are going to do yourself.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
