Still hanging on ... just

[fightin]

Thank you Sandi2 for the detachment post. This is part of what I struggle with as well so I'm going to print this and reference it often.

My W wants to blame me and she wants me to do things that make her feel better about her actions. I refuse to do that. She also seems to want me to make the first move as far as ending our M, I think because then she feels she can blame me, but she is not thinking about how when it is over she will still know the truth about how it all ended. I can't in good conscious move on until I know I've tried everything so she will just have to live with her actions.