I have read through boundaries, and i try to think of applying the stuff thats being said to my situation, and i draw blanks. Especially when it comes to consequences. Even worse, i feel like she may be applying the same principles onto to me at times granted i think she punishes me out of spite
jade,
I had the same issue with enforcing boundaries, and I think most of us do. What I finally did was look at how my wife controlled me (used me as a doormat) and employed her methods. I'm not saying that you have to be a total prick, but you have to be firm, consistent and steadfast. As soon as your WW knows you mean business, then things will be a lot easier.
Any number of times my WW told me that I should move out of the master bedroom so she could sleep there. She always got the same answer, "No, I'm sleeping in the master bedroom." She could prattle on if she wanted to, but she wasn't going to change that.
