Me too. I could tell from the first 5 minutes that she was only there to pacify me. My wife was talking to her IC for a year about our problems and never came to me with her concerns. By the time she she came to me with the divorce, she was gone. In her mind, the moment she told me she wanted a divorce, she was already divorced. Tonight she's going out with a bunch of 20-somethings. She's on her own planet.

One thing the MC said that really got me was that she thought that our communication was so bad that we would have a difficult time co-parenting. Forget about being in working marriage.


Me: 46, WAW/WW:44
Kids-D 12y/o
T: 20
M: 15
BD: 9-20-16