Not as sad-Part 2

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Why does he still have clothes there? Pack it all up and give it to him.

Molly,
Couple of the many reasons that you may not like the person he appears to be right now:
1. You really may be figuring out who you want him to be and it's not him
2. You have negative sentiment override and no matter what he does right now you will view it as a negative

This is again where detaching helps. Detaching isn't about flooding your mind with negatives to try and make a separation easier. Some of your comments lead me to believe that this is happening.

He's not the enemy. He may be a $&@% right now but this is a scared man that you once loved like no other. I'm not in any way saying his behavior should be excused but, I doubt he's really enjoying this.