First off, any tips for GAL when your WW leaves you with the kids and up until a week ago has made almost 0 effort to see them? I don't have much in the way of family in the area, and the kids are young (7 and 4). It's tough to have a life when my life pretty much revolves around work and them
I have kids around the same age. Some things I did/do:
- find a gym that has a day care or child center. This will let you take your kids to the gym while you work out. If they have a pool, thats even better as you can go with your kids there for an hour or 2 on the weekends or at night. - find local things that you can do with the kids cheaply. Libraries, museums, play areas, etc. A lot of times, there are many community events aimed at children as well. Find them and go. You will draw happiness from their happiness. - arrange activities and play dates for your kids. If you can do parties for holidays or special events, that will help you as well as youcan get wrapped up in the planning and cooking of the event. Letting your children invite their school friends will improve your relationship with them and you may meet new friends. - volunteer for community service. I imagine there are activities that your kids can help with. Or volunteer at their schools during the week.