Itching powder sounds like a great idea. I just threw them in the garbage because I was not doing his laundry. It's hard to find a consequence that works for me because he just ignores them or he retaliates(like he won't pay the mortgage if he can't use the house). I'm not prepared to file a legal separation at this time. I've asked him to take DD elsewhere for visits which he kind of has been doing but he always comes back to the house with her. Her having special needs throws out some challenges that I am not prepared to deal with.
It [censored] a bit right now. Although I still feel pretty centered and okay, I am having some pretty serious health issues and he would have been the guy I reached out to. Talking to him yesterday about child care arrangements and I realized that he isn't in there any more. Either I saw something in him that wasn't there or he has changed so much that he just isn't who I thought he was. I don't really care for the person he has become.
GAL stuff today: taking a few days off. Therapy today. New tattoo today.
