I don't think anyone thinks you need to be dating right now. I just think they believe you shouldn't write off the possibily for the future, which you may have for now, but are aware that it could change in a few years.
Yeah, us oldtimers on here use this place as a dating support group. I know I do. I'm just at a different place. I'm over 8 years in. Dating after divorce certainly has it's challenges and it's nice to have the support here. But nobody wants to push you into dating when you aren't ready.
You come here and say what you want to say. Whatever it is. And there is nothing you want to, then don't. Sometimes I discuss kid situations, how to deal with my ex and his OWW. How marriages around me are crumbling and how that is affecting me.
There is no "fitting in". We come from all walks of life, from different places, and at different stages.
