Just try to take care of yourself..It is very hard to keep up the R with them while they are in MLC so we move through many stages..b4 we get to acceptance Your D will learn coping skills from you it will make her stronger,,and you will be ok The pain will ease--promise
Going though it is difficult..we only have to do this once-we get through it and its over grief may take 18 months..If we avoid it , it will come up again so Job said it Feel it...allow it..lean into it..It will pass once we fully feel it and it may come again until we are on the other side and we all get there- listen to tapes or speakers, get support from women,,find groups or therapy find spiritual help, exercise, rest breathe
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
