She moved out...now the work begins...II

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Its hard when you get the papers

WE love our spouses and most of us don't want to have more conflict with them
BUT

the D has to be handled well and as a business deal or we may get stuck losing or paying more than we should-Get a good L

her L is only out for her best interest
She only cares about herself also at this point
They never want us to fight them and it is hard because it creates more distance