She moved out...now the work begins...II

[SBJ]

Just got a call from the W...she has heard back from her attorney and he has the D papers ready. She wants to know if I will just sign them with her at his office so that we can avoid paying alot of $$$, have it done quickly, and avoid going to the temporary hearing. She keeps saying that neither of us is trying to keep something from the other or hurt the other one. I'm so bummed.

She has to pull this crap right before I take a long weekend to get away for myself. She is acting like this is no big deal and that everything is great. Pisses me off. I have given all of myself to my marriage and she is flushing it down the crapper.

I guess I was hoping that she would just wake up and that we would be able to escape the D. I don't want to quit on her...why is she wanting out so fast? It's a bummer for sure.