Hi fightin. The only other thing I can say is that, at the very least, you should tell your W that you're not interested in hearing about the OW. How would she feel if the situation were reversed?

I honestly don't know what I would do if my wife decided to keep the affair going after it was discovered, let alone discussing it with me, and I look to some of the vets on this board to give some advice because mine would probably be wrong.

As for guitar lessions... go for it! I can help if you want. I've been playing for about 30 years now smile

M46 W48
M11 T14
S11 D8
BD: 2016/05/27
In-home separation: 2016/11/23
Nesting: 2017/06/11
W moves out: 2018/01/07
W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12
I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14