She moved out...now the work begins...II

[SBJ]

I totally understand...I was am still shocked about the same thing. I feel that I did everything for her for so long and neither one of us was good at communicating our needs with each other. She now says that she isn't in love with me and that there is no passion in our marriage...and she also says that we have always just been friends and that there hasn't ever been passion.

She is big on romance novels and romance movies...seems like she is looking for something that is not centered in reality. I can only speculate that her EA opened up those feelings that we once had...25 years ago...and stirred something up. Now she says that she will never want to be with me again intimately. Talk about deflating.