miky I feel for you. My W is having an A openly and refuses to stop. We have to do everything in our power to remember exactly what cadet said, they are aliens right now. Their heads are not in the place we wish it was and we certainly can't force them to want to be with us.
Your situation with kids is a difficult one. If you have friends willing to hang out with you and your children, even better if they have children of their own that can play with your kids. Then at least you'll get a start to having adult conversations and spending time with people that make you feel good about yourself.
The problem is I moved away from family a friends to live closer to her family. I am isolated here. I do have a few coworkers who have offered, and maybe I should take them up on it.
I am just so mad at her when I think it is an affair. Sometimes I think the only reason I second guess it is to protect myself from the pain. For months I believed her that she was going through some deep depression (and maybe it started out that way) despite knowing in my heart of hearts it was a lie.
