So confused, please help

[fightin]

miky I feel for you. My W is having an A openly and refuses to stop. We have to do everything in our power to remember exactly what cadet said, they are aliens right now. Their heads are not in the place we wish it was and we certainly can't force them to want to be with us.

Your situation with kids is a difficult one. If you have friends willing to hang out with you and your children, even better if they have children of their own that can play with your kids. Then at least you'll get a start to having adult conversations and spending time with people that make you feel good about yourself.