I think Lim was referring to the sentence in bold. Why are you so sure she will come back?

Quote:
She will come back, but now I need to know if I'm in a position to accept and trust her.


IMHO, the unfaithful S must earn trust. If she is willing to do the necessary work to save the MR, then a transparency plan should be used, as well as a few more additional things.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!