HaWho, I agree with Job and Ginger. Perhaps when he sends messages like that, you can respond you'll be happy to discuss it with him whenever he likes and then drop it or ignore future texts about the same issue until he comes to you to talk face to face. He'll get angry or moody or pouty, but let him. He'll get over it.
I'm willing to bet that you don't communicate important issues with your boys this way and my question would be why let your h get away with it? He's having issues but you can set boundaries and let him know you expect him to civil and respectful to you.
Sorry if I was too blunt ... just my 2 cents.
xoxoxo 2T
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013