She moved out...now the work begins...II

[SBJ]

While I know what all of you guys say is true, it is effing difficult. I know it can be done, but that is truly a 180 for me. I was always the one that was eager to do what she wanted or needed. Now I'm having to find a way to tell her that I cannot and will not fill just the role of friend. I guess it is time to rip off the band aid and just tell her that. I have made it a point to not call or text her first for anything. She has called and texted very little as she has pulled away.

I think j20 told me that weeks ago..."She has fired you from the role of husband." I guess that has to sink in thru my thick skull. Thanks for the "2x4"...again. At this point I don't know for sure if there is anyone else in the picture, but I know the possibility is high due to the stats of MLC.

It totally stinks that this is going on at all, but it seems that the holidays are extremely hard. I simply dread having to go thru this between Thanksgiving and Christmas.

Thank you guys for all of the support.