Truth speak....ready? It has nothing to do with the place. It has to do with you not being there! Your old wife may not have ever lived there before...this woman that looks like her would rather live in a box as opposed to with you.

Gotta detach man. You talking about being best friends and such for the marriage...awesomene. We all were. Stop living the past to validate you allowing her to use you as a doormat. It's as simple as this...if you are cool with being her friend, keep doing what you are doing. If you ever want to be her husband again, you very well may want to change course.


34, xw33
M-10, T-18
2D (8 and 5)
Ilybinilwy-1/16
EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend)
Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated)
W moved out-8/16
W Filed 11/21/16
D final 1/30/17