Two questions:

First off, any tips for GAL when your WW leaves you with the kids and up until a week ago has made almost 0 effort to see them? I don't have much in the way of family in the area, and the kids are young (7 and 4). It's tough to have a life when my life pretty much revolves around work and them

Second question, also regarding the kids. Since I had a consultation with the Lawyer last Thursday (the day after I discovered she was still texting OM), she has been wanting to see the kids more...technically it may have even started a bit sooner than that. Anyway, she now says she wants to see them every day after going a week without seeing them and even then only for an hour or two at a time. I tried to work out a schedule, but she mocks the idea that we could be busy and says her schedule at work is hectic. The best I could do was requiring 24 hours notice. Any tips for enforcing better boundaries without being a jerk or denying my kids access to their mom?