Thank you Job for your reply...I have just unblocked him again. I guess I find it hard to believe that he can lie awake at night and think of me when he seems to have no care for me at the moment and when he is lying next to a twenty-something instead of a fifty-something. How am I even supposed to compete with that? It really hurts to be replaced by a newer younger version...I have always keep myself fit and looked after myself and still he walks out on me...am I just supposed to ignore the other woman?