I agree Job and sent him a message telling him that. He never responded. He seemed angry/grumpy with me until later in the evening. At one point I was leaving with the kids and h said goodbye so cheerfully to the kids. But to me? He said bye in this super flat, depressed voice. The disparity between the tones was laughable.

I assume he will continue to test this texting boundary.

This trip back east ought to be interesting. Sounds like he's already worrying about it all. He really is stuck in the past.

It's so weird. Sometimes I still can't believe how real this thing can be.

Thanks Job.

Last edited by job; 11/09/16 06:06 AM. Reason: Edited posting for poster to reflect the complete sentence.
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced