When I viewed MWD's LRT videos, it said do family things. It also said do not pursue. I do not see this action as pursuing. I see this man's action as teaching his sons how to respect someone. Whether it goes against how he feels about his xW or not, it is a positive action for the boys. The boys are too young to understand the bad behavior of the xW and it really is not something they should have to deal with.
I have heard of some of my friends who have tried this same thing and the xW did not even open the gift from their children because they thought it was pursuit. This caused more emotional damage to the child. There is a risk to doing something like this.
For me, I have too much bitterness at this point to take an action like this, but I am not sure I would do it on a yearly basis.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...