Thank you my friends. I'm sometimes fall for the texts. My last link was back and forth regarding tons of school info questions. I really wanted to say - lay off. I got this. I'll fill you in. But it just kept coming.
I told my lawyer and my boys counselor that I feel so bad that I don't respond to try to defend myself. He continues to tell me that I am not trying to coparent with them, so he sounds logical?
Both lawyer and counselor said that it would do no good to try to convince him that he's wrong.
The lies, the promises to the boys that have gone unfulfilled, accusations, presumptions. His barrage of texts. He projects so much onto me.His refusal to meet with me alone since He opted out.
So as many of you and many websites suggest - DISENGAGE!, Stick to the facts!
Sunday night, we had dinner with my former SIL and she's not liking what he's doing and their relationship is strained. HE blocked her on FB and doesn't talk to her. My SIL said not to respond to his texts either. She's noticed that he's a very angry person and isn't the person we all knew.
For now, I'll try not to respond unless absolutely necessary.
He text today to let me know that he'll be sending the entire amt of child support. He also wants to go back to the agreed Friday night (2 hr) visit. Since his wife and I agreed it helps changing it to fridays instead of Thursday b/c it disrupts their hmwk time.
I didn't respond.
So I don't know. As mentioned. no response or brief response - which is best with this narcissist.? Praying for wisdom and favor.
Thanks for your precious time and wisdom. Y'all are AMAZING!!! Prayers are being lifted for all of you! y'all are REAL BLESSINGS!!
