Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 6)

[ForGump]

The only times I've felt like a divorce could be good for the kids is when my W has gotten extremely angry at them a few times.

I know exactly how it feels to not have the kids 50% of the time -- that happens when I go away for work and it totally s[u]cks. Talking to them on the phone is not even close to just being in the same house with them, and having normal interactions. No two ways about it -- divorce s[u]cks.

JR -- I remember you being totally bummed that your W failed to do anything about your anniversary. What did *you* do about the anniversary yourself? Did you say anything? Get a card?