I just wonder if anyone else on the boards has been through this. Have any of you been told, "I married you for the wrong reasons" only later to hear something like, "I realize now how much we have that's good and I just focused on the negative for too long." ?
Chris my W told me the same thing when I exposed her EA. She literally rewrote our entire history together (we should've never been together, we were incompatible, we shouldn't have been married, she was miserable etc....). After her EA ended she went from regretting the our time together of 11 years, to only our marriage and then recently to only regrets the failures of our marriage. I think with time and depending on how deep she was in the A she may start to see things differently soon. I know our situation is different though but hang in there.
- M:32 and WW:31 D4 - Married 5 years, 11 years together - ilybinilwy 9/28 EA Confirmed + request for divorce - 10/16 Affair ended - 10/28 WW wants to reconcile after I agree on divorce - Current - Piecing
