So had a 40 minute ear bashing from the W today. She is still so angry with me over the controlling ways in which I've behaved.

Pointing the finger at me for everything that caused the breakdown of the M (I get that its easier to blame me than to look at herself), but we're 10 weeks on.

Should there still be so much anger here - why does she care at this point she's left and is in the situation that she chose.

What am I missing?


M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016