Wife has filed for divorce

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Does anyone have any advice on "going dark" or "the last resort" technique when you are still living in the same house. We sleep in separate rooms. Wife filed divorce on 10-21-16, almost 3 weeks into the 6 month waiting period now. We will have a pre-trial and then assume we will go to court appointed mediation.

I deal with an angry, bitter, unforgiving, selfish wife (her words not mine, but true) basically everyday, feels she has given so much of her life to the kids and family while stuffing her emotions and now regrets everything except for the kids, that was her comment to me at last year Thanksgiving. Somedays she puts on a front so we get along ok, but I can tell she's always biting her tongue, I never respond with anger, I actually thank her for sharing how she feels when she does.