Hi Coly, I wouldn't have any of those convos with him. They are R talks. Truly, sit back and let him initiate anything like that. And if he does, validate. Other than that, act as though you are meeting a colleague/neighbour for an hour for coffee. And if you don't think you can manage that, postpone and suggest you leave it for this week and let him initiate a further meeting if he wants to..

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