Forgot a little detail. The ring was only worn once during the trip, which is more often than here! I did get the impression she hid her ring finger when in company.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together