Hey Feyth, glad bootcamp is going well. My muscles are hurting in sympathy for yours!
I like Cali's advice about shutting H down if he starts to get heavy. It's not fair that you are not only being put through a D but you are also having to deal with him being nasty to you. Protect yourself and set your boundaries you don't deserve any of this.
I also gave an issue with H's family. Not one of them have contacted me to find out how I am. It makes me sad but I know that's where H gets avoidance of talking about emitional issues....
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')