Time to Love and discover myself

[Coly23]

Hey Pink, I'm a relatively new her and have caught up some on your sitch.

I hope you don't mind me chiming in here but wow! That exchange you had at the house of the lady from church brought tears to my eyes and then when he knelt down in front of you and opened up to what he wants just made my heart swell...

You sound so afraid and justifiably cautious. When the person who holds your heart decides to squash it under foot trusting them again will not be easy. But imho you maybe need to make a decision now as to whether you want to take that risk with him again.

He is making all the right noises about the fog lifting so maybe being his friend for a bit will enable you to see some action from him that he is truly remorseful and wants to work towards a new relationship with you again. I think NYGal was right when she said you just need to take a chance but you are now at that stage we are all told about at the beginning. The choice is now yours as to whether you take him back or not.

Good luck Pink. Your sitch really gives me hope...