And so it continues .........

[mleigh4]

Lou, I swear I live in the same bizarro world with my H. The last R talk we had a few months ago, he basically reinstated his doubts that we could ever work this out, and I finally dropped the rope. Since then, contact has become more, he is friendlier than ever, he is reminiscing a lot lately, and just suggested today that we should go to Lake Tahoe for Thanksgiving and have honeybaked ham, like we used to do.

I don't know the answer to the behavior, I have actually been wondering if my H may be a bit mentally ill? Lol, but seriously, it can be very confusing, unless you have the experience under our belts that we do. It rolls off me, and it sounds like the same with you. It's pretty twisted, I would love to hear what some of the vets have to say about it. I think of how my old therapist had described my H....he held up one hand waving me to him, while holding the other up to hold me back.

Stay strong and grounded Lou. I very much hope you have some calm in your future. I know my calm has saved me, to a point where I refuse to give it up.

Xxoo
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