Molly,

You are doing great! Baby steps...the emotional detaching takes time. We all wish we could do it with a snap of our fingers, unfortunately that is not the case.

When we fall in love we tend to be dependent on our S over time, and when we get the BD from the S the emotions and dependency hit us like a freight train and we hurt for a long time.

Pamper yourself and don't worry about your H. Make yourself feel good and always look great. The advice and suggestions are all for you and if that ends up attracting your H back to you that is the bonus!

Hang in there Molly!


H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6
S-9,8,8,6,4
S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15
EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16
PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16
XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16
Finally moving forward...