Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 6)

[ForGump]

Thanks for sharing the process of grieving and letting go ... it's what I'm going through. But there are two versions for me: one for me, and one for my kids. For me, it's somewhat easier to imagine being divorced from my W. I can imagine the positive aspects of it. It's difficult for me to imagine the positive aspects for my kids. There are no waves of peace on that beach.