Thanks Cadet and Rose. I will take your advice. I ordered the DR book and will keep it hidden. I will prioritize GAL activities but invite her to join me if she wants to. Already started doing this actually. With my schedule and parent responsibilities, my GAL activities mostly happen at home. An event that allows us to both go out requires planning.

It makes me so sad that the things I took for granted now require planning and strategy. We used to have such a fun life together. I miss her so much frown


M46 W48
M11 T14
S11 D8
BD: 2016/05/27
In-home separation: 2016/11/23
Nesting: 2017/06/11
W moves out: 2018/01/07
W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12
I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14