I would not go dark or use LRT.

I understand what you mean about needing fun in your relationship, but you need to tread very lightly. Very very lightly.

In my case, my H seemed to want to spend time with me, so I accepted those invitations.

I worked on GAL, and some times he asked if he could join me. I accepted his company.

And at the beginning, when we both knew R talks were bad but we had a hard time falling into them, I suggested we watch a new show together.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16