I am so sorry that she is being selfish about things. I'm also sorry you didn't get to see your son in his costume. Hopefully she'll send you a photo at some point.
I'm also sorry to her about her grandmother. She lived a very long time and saw a lot of things happen in the last 101 years. Can you just imagine the history she took to her grave?
You might not hear anything on the D front for quite some time. She might be one of those that drags her feet after talking about it for a while. You just never know.
I'm glad you are staying busy What are you doing for Thanksgiving this year? Are you going to be w/your family or friends ... or are you staying in and cooking for yourself?
Cali, you've come a long way, fought the battle and no matter what happens you are an inspiration to everyone.
Hang in there!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
