Originally Posted By: jade
Now my wife is pissed that i didnt inform her of my weekend plans with the kids on my weekend. Saying i should have informed her. I wont have to in divorce since thats what she wants. How to validate? And diffuse?


OK, now I'm curious--what did you do with them?

Unless it was something super dangerous (like letting them ride an ATV), I would just say something like "Yeah, it's weird not to know the details when they're with the other parent. "


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16