Those who know me, and my IRL friends who are on the boards also.... know biceps and physical attributes are the LAST thing I look for. I certainly do appreciate them, but not what attracts me to a man. I have mentioned many times how someone not initially physically attractive can be become physically attractive through personality, and hey, vice versa!
No, I don't know friends who know a nice single guy. I'm at that awkward age, where people are either married or getting divorced, and I live in my long time hometown. I would be hitting on someone else's husband and probably the father of one my D9's classmates. I hate online dating, but this single mom knows it's about the only route.
I am looking for a big heart. There is no doubt about it. Of course, there has to be a level of physical attraction, but I want a nice, kind, non-taker who actually wants to be a partner and share his life with me. I have never been so sure of what I am looking for as I have been for the past year and a half of my life.
