An online calendar would be great if someone has a suggestion. It would definitely make it easier.

Thanks so much , Vanilla.

I have read the threads on detaching, 180, LRT, and going dark over and over. I read Sandi's rules every morning. I can physically detach. I haven't seen him for week. I take a different route to work so not to pass by his work. I am no longer friends with him on FB and I have gotten rid of any apps that tied us together. I just can't seem to emotionally detach. im still thinking about him and wanting him to come home even though I *know* I need to let go of the outcome.

It's anwork in progress. I wish I was on the fast track rather than in the slow lane.


Me: 41
WH: 41
DS: 21
DD: 20
DD:18

Dday: Oct 2016
Currently Separated