where to begin or end?

[jade]

I had my faults. We slipped into a slump, a while back with kids n daycare, our dynamic changed but we didnt address our new needs. I took her for granted and flirted with others as a source of validation when i felt unloved by her. I wasnt the family/housekeeper man, i was the good career bread winner. I know ive got work to do, i have to make sure my changes are ones that i can keep permanent.

On the other side, OM likes his freedom, didnt want kids with his wife of 10yrs, drinks and is occasional drug user with a part time job and now mostly stays with his parents since his wife kicked him out.