You need to be taking care of Bee! I would go a bit dim on your h and let him stew a while. Your health is far more important than listening to his "thinking" of filing for divorce. I would simply say to him "I'm sorry you feel that way" and either hang up the phone of walk away.
The more you allow him to take from you emotionally, the more he'll do it. He may very well be hoping that you'll have enough of his nonsense and file.
Bee, it's time to go dimmer on him for a while. You need to focus on you and your health and that's what is important at this time.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
