where to begin or end?

[jade]

I spend lots of time either with my kids when they are with me, or with friends when they arent. I truly want to be there for my wife when she falls, to which based on almost all accounts her affair will die. I was generally a good husband, no drinking, drugs, smoking, neglect or hitting. Yes we had our issues mostly with communication of each others dissatifactions within the marriage. I hope she can see that one day if i dont keep muddying up the current situation