Re her missing me, this is something that she has told me, and I was referencing. The rest though, point taken.
Up until today, I had been detaching and going somewhat dark, but I'm struggling to know what to do as this doesn't seem to be having any effect (that I can see).
I've noted that she is missing the times that we would have had and that my GAL appears to be working - thought please guys...
I would have limited my response to "I don't think that of you. I believe you when you say it is hard."
And then nothing else.
Detachment is primarily for your own emotional health. It also happens to give your marriage the best shot, but here is no guarantee that detaching and GAL will bring your spouse back.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
