So the bomb dropped and moving out was about 2 months ago and you are having relationship talks?

This is far from detaching. Telling her you miss her. Telling her how she feels ("you haven't missed me at all.."). Telling her what you are doing.

If you want to keep the peace you did a great job. If you want to shake things up and try something that may help, you have some work to do starting now!

34, xw33
M-10, T-18
2D (8 and 5)
Ilybinilwy-1/16
EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend)
Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated)
W moved out-8/16
W Filed 11/21/16
D final 1/30/17