Originally Posted By: jade
Truthfully i dont know how to get a life and meet new friends. And we all want to feel loved. Idk, im trying but i seem to gravitate toward women. Id prefer to keep my focus on my wife, but thats counter intuitive to GAL


Figuring out how take responsibility for your own happiness, independent of any relationship, is hugely important.

In my seven months on the board, I haven't seen anyone succeed who has failed to figure this part out.

And it's not just important in troubled marriages. It's actually a key mark of a healthy relationship.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16