I read through DR. And pretty much got that i need to go LRT since my wife has moved out to persue her affair. And that i need to GAL. As thats what most my friends n family say as well, but getting a life feels like moving on which feels like giving up and closing the door. To me that would be starting new relationships or having my fun. Which feels like a violation of my marriage and caving to temptation. That nearly happened once already after she left and i feel if im to take that route, i might as well file for divorce myself...
This makes it sound like you can't think of any way to get a life that doesn't involve a romantic or sexual relationship. Is that really what you mean to say?
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
